Thursday, August 19, 2010

全新的你

















你说阴天代表你的心情
雨天更是你对生命的反应
你说每天生活一样平静
对于未来没有一点信心
亲爱朋友你是否曾经
曾经观看满天的星星
期待有人能够了解你心
能够爱你赐你力量更新

耶稣能够 叫一切都更新
耶稣能够 体会你的心情
耶稣能够 改变你的曾经
耶稣爱你 耶稣疼你
耶稣能造 一个全新的你

Friday, February 19, 2010

很好的文章,基督徒应仔细品尝:

1.下次如果觉得自己了不起时,试试行在水上。
2.当魔鬼提醒你的过去时,请提醒他的未来
3.你不是幸运,是蒙福
4.若想要真正活着,得先彻底死去
5.机会也许只敲一次门,但试探却总是在按门铃。
6.我们常在强壮时,忘了神
7.那些只在星期天呼唤“天父”的人,在一星期余下的日子里活得像孤儿。
8.不要以自我为中心,要以基督为中心
9.没有基督,没有平安;认识基督,得到平安
10.为什么我们不常向朋友提起神?因为我们不常向神提起我们的朋友
11.当把你的一切献给基督,因为他把他的一切都给了你。
12.你现在所追求的,值得基督为它死吗
13.使你向神靠近的人,是你真正的朋友
14.神爱我们,不是因为我们是怎样一个人,而是因为他是怎样一个
15.神的应许像夜空里的星星。夜越深,星星的光芒越亮
16.没有基督的生命,是无望的尽头。有基督的生命,是无尽的盼望
17.我虽不知道未来掌管着什么,但我知道谁掌管着未来
18.把你的重担交给主,让它留在主那里Bold
19.不要畏惧明天,因为上帝已在那里
20.当你除了神,一无所有时,你将知道神就是你全部的需要
21.放手交给上帝,别再向神讲述你的风暴有多大,当向风暴讲述你的神有多大
22.能够满足人心的,是造人心的那一位。
23.请常常保持着你心里的光,因为你不知道,谁会藉着这光走出黑暗
24.当我们只顾工作的时候,我们独自工作;当我们祈祷的时候,神工作
25.神无所不在,所以我们可以随处祷告
26.一个没有需要的人永远见不到神迹
27.敬拜提醒我们生命的价值,但世界却使我们忘记它。
28.步履艰难的时候,别一味的祷告,却不迈向神要你走的路
29.祷告会为我们作很多事,忧虑同样可以。

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

爱情...友情...

喜欢一个人,并不一定要爱她;但爱一个人的前提,却是一定要喜欢她。喜欢很容易转变为爱,但爱过之后却很难再说喜欢;因为喜欢是宽容的,而爱则是自私的。喜欢是一种轻松而淡然的心态,但爱却太沉重;爱一旦说出口就变成了一种誓言,一种承诺。爱是把双刃剑,如果拔出,一不小心,即伤了别人也伤了自己。被爱所伤的人心中永远都有一道不会愈合的伤口。在月朗星稀的夜晚,你思念着远方的朋友,如果心中只是一种淡淡的喜悦和温馨,那就是喜欢;如果其中还有一份隐隐的疼痛,那便是爱。

爱情和友情都是不可分割的,都很重要的,但爱情都是有友情进化成的,一般人都是先做朋友才做情人,如果世界上没有朋友的构成,那爱情从何而来呢?当你遇到爱情的时候千万不可以遗忘了友情,因为友情是陪伴你一生的,如果被爱情抛弃了,友情也会在身边安慰你,我想,友情还是比爱情重要。

如果有人问你爱情和友情哪种重要呢?如果你回答爱情,那你就是傻,别人一定会以为你重色轻友,如果你回答友情的话,那也会有人说你没有情调,只存在友情,之间就不会存在一点点暧昧的调调,生活不是更单调了。所以爱情和友情可以说是互相排斥,也是一说是互相吸引的,只要自己身边两者依存的话,那自己的日子一定会充满幸福感,最后,爱情和友情都很重要。

友情里一个人加一个人就等于两个世界!
爱情里一个人加一个人只等于一个世界!

淡淡的牵挂是友情
深深的思念是爱情

区别的关键就在于见面频率,以及谈话内容和谈话时的距离。
男女之间是纯友情时,一般至少三个月以上才会见一次,谈话的内容也多半是些不关痛痒的国际民生事物,谈话时的距离怎么都得隔张桌子。
爱情就不用细说了吧,反正就是粘在一起。

友情不能去和爱情争什么,友情有友情的分寸,友情的基础是互相理解和体谅,是一种欣赏而不是占有,一个人可以同时拥有很多朋友;爱情是两个人中最亲密的关系,宽容和爱是它存在的保障,爱情是某中程度上的占有和惟一,一个人不能同时拥有很多份爱情。

爱情是什么?爱情是太阳,多一个则太热,大地万物生烟;少一个则太冷,世界冷寂冰封。
友情是什么?友情是大海,多一滴它未必宽广,少一滴它同样浩瀚。

人的心只有一颗,爱的人只有一个。
人的手都有一双,用你的左手握我的右手,友情因此无限延长。

爱情讲究一步到位,没有它的人茶饭不思,有它的人精神饱满!
友情标榜日积月累,今天在这里失去了,明天从那里补回来。


相对于爱情来说,
友情来得直接来得真诚来得坦荡。
说它直接,因为它不象爱情那么曲折;
说它真诚,因为它不象爱情那么躲避;
说它坦荡,因为它不象爱情那么自私。

相对于友情来说,
爱情虽然曲折躲避自私,
但正因曲折,爱情才显出珍贵;
正因躲避,爱情才显出强烈;
正因自私,爱情才显出伟大。

友情可无语,但爱情不可无语。
友情可冷漠,但爱情不可冷漠。
友情可怀疑,但爱情不可怀疑。
无语的友情,并非无情,
心领神会的无语必是高洁的友情。
冷漠的友情,并非无情,
不想伤害的冷漠必是真挚的友情。
怀疑的友情,并非无情,
坦坦荡荡的怀疑必是友情的升华。
友情可离开爱情而存在,
爱情却依存于友情而永恒。
友情与爱情虽有严格的界限,
但二者都没有丝毫的朦胧。

Sunday, February 7, 2010

善意的谎言

有人把谎言分为真实(恶意)的谎言和善意的谎言两类,估计是靠对他人是否造成了伤害来区分的.而善意与否该如何去界定?那又有谁喜欢当傻瓜的滋味?不要忽视善意的谎言同样具有杀伤力和破坏力,只是在某种程度上减轻或降低了伤害程度.但谎言终究都是谎言,无论是善意还是恶意,一旦被识破都会给你想保护的人带来伤害.

善意的谎言-- 对于工作而言,也许是为了达到某些目的,为了让自已多赚点钱,总之是为了目的而目的.但你有没有发觉撒谎的人比别人更费脑子,更累,有可能失去比得到的多.

对于生命而言,也许为了更好地生活着,为了开心地过好每一天,为了能够延续一些可贵的生命.但你知不知道因为你善意的谎言使他来不及做很多事,带着遗憾离开.
对于感情而言,也许为了自私地爱自已,为了不伤害地更深,或者是为了美好的未来.但你却忽略了那细小的美丽谎言正在一点点地催毁彼此信任的基础.

少说一点谎,因为再美的谎言依然叫做”谎言”,为了保护这美丽的外壳,它就像细菌一样会衍生,需要继续延续下去,停不了,而当你回首时发现自己离爱你的人和你爱的人已经越来越远了...

在相比真实的谎言来说,有人把善意的谎言当作爱别人的一种方式.有人把它当成了爱自已的一种手段,有人却推崇为保全爱情而难得糊涂的做法.而也有人认为它或许是爱情的调味剂,不可或缺,一场误会,一点冷落之后的感情再度燃烧和升华,再度寻找恋爱的感觉。

说谎是为了隐瞒事实真相,掩饰自己的过错,躲避一切的不良行为。


既是谎言?何来善意?!即是善意!何必撒谎?!

Thursday, February 4, 2010


"Love is patient and kind;
it is not jealous or conceited or proud;
love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable;
love does not keep a record of wrongs;
love is not happy with evil;
but is happy with the truth.

Love never gives up;
love is eternal."



Please be STRONG. and be HAPPY. no love is perfect. and no love is bad. no love is not good enough. no love is too good. love is just love. plain simple. otherwise there is no love.

Love is not happy with evil. but with the simple truth. NEVER ever ever give it up. it IS eternal. without love this earth is just a tomb. don't say you don't believe in love, and what it can do. Gladly accept what hardships it takes, and enjoy what joy it offers. we were given someone who we love. and loves us back. to do it together with us. someone to hold. to walk this road together. to make life easier. not the opposite. don't expect to only enjoy the fruits.

It might take a lot of work. and makes people tired. creates pain. but who said there isn't pain in love? Would you ever want to commit to a relationship that brings no pain? Would you spend your efforts then, on things that never teaches you any lessons?

Its not just a module. its not a subject. not a course either. there is no institution that can teach you what it means. what it takes. where it brings us to. Its wonderful only because we feel in deep in our hearts. Whereby no second person can feel the exact same way as you do. not even your lover dying to understand it. that's the greatest privacy we get. Its wonderful only because we believe in it willingly. and love our best.

It is never easy. life too is never easy. same theory. no one wants to live a life that doesn't teach us anything. no one wants to live a life with a golden spoon forever. some people are just too stupid and dumb to engage in all sorts of mindless activities and learn random stuffs. and ignore the lessons life teaches us. they only find themselves failing every single time. find themselves questioning themselves why are they that weak. and blame others for the situation of their own incapabilities. and then blame themselves for the same reasons. after that. they engage in more mindless activities only to find themselves making themselves a fool every time they enter battle mode. love too is never easy. don't engage in too many mindless chats. mindless complaints. mindless quarrels. it only happens when? you've lost your minds. the mind reads one thing. to protect your loved ones. to protect yourself. once you lost your mind. you start hurting yourself and others. your loved ones too. they feel like you've lost your mind. and they don't understand what the heck you're thinking or doing. so they throw their minds away too. two draws out swords and randomly slash each other. thrilling to learn that they are fighting. cos they dunno how to fight otherwise.

My point is clear. It's not easy. But there are lessons in life we have to learn. and by not losing too much things. that's why we have someone who loves us and willing to stay by us when we loses everything.
My point is clear. It's not easy. But there's nothing to think about. to hesitate about. Don't lose your mind. Love your best.

Do this. Protect your loved ones. Protect yourself. Protect the love between you and your loved ones. Do whatever you can. Just don't be silly to make everything loses its meaning.

Friends. whoever is reading this. You are strong. There is nothing in this world destructive enough to break anything in a strong mind. unless you invite it in. You are capable of doing it. Cos its just to love your best. And your heart leads you all the way. Where ever where you are. If you feel you're not able to do it well enough, that means you've already done your best. And there's basically not much to do. then to be consistent in your lovings.

I'm in no position to comment anything about anything. It doesn't concern me. It doesn't involves me. I won't interfere. Cos only love can say. Cos only the bearer of that love hears what it says. But sometimes we all knows what is to do. and what is not to. We all know what regrets are made of. We all know what happy endings are made of. And life is for sure no fairytale. Wake up n refresh yourself. Prepare arms. Load up full. And get yourself on the battleground. The monsters may need 10 shots before it dies. But rmb that no amount of shots can bring you down. cos if you're with your loved ones. You need no armour. Hurts will have auto healing. In such no one can hurt you at all. Stay strong. Stay together.


Wednesday, January 27, 2010

爱情,因缘而起,因缘相遇...

传说说每一个人在生命降临的那一刻起,便失去生命的另一半,因此我们的生命不再完整。从那时起,在人生道路上,我们总是迷茫着,徘徊着,不知人生归宿是什么。

传说又说上帝看见日益迷失的人,动了恻隐之心,便化作一位先知,告知人们唯有爱情才能让我们找到生命中的另一半,也唯有爱情才能指引我们寻找到人生归宿。

这个传说,是真是假,从何时流传下来,没人知道,也从没人质疑过,因为传说是一个很遥远事情,而爱情却是我们必须要面对一件事情。

爱情,不一定要轰轰烈烈,也不一定刻骨铭心,但一定要幸福美满,这是我们所期盼的。人们常说情深似海,情比金坚,可情为何物,谁知道?古今往来,一代又一代人在探索着,或许没人能给出让所有人信服答案,但一定能找到自己心中答案,我想这就足已。

爱情,因缘而起,因缘相遇,相识,相知,相伴,直到地老天荒。缘,如爱情般,神秘,不可测。缘,没人知道因何而起,因何而落,只知道,缘是天注定,不是人力可为。

我们常说有缘无分,我常想缘是上天早已注定,还是我们一念之间注定,苦苦思索着,找不到问题答案,或许这就是缘的魅力所在。情深似海,缘淡如月,凄美而伤感,其中的辛酸谁人知?

Sunday, January 17, 2010

谢谢--小莹

第一篇 - 心灵

试着去发现幸福和爱,你将会发现你必须学着去爱的第一个人是你自己。

有些人决定将困忧留给上帝,让自己感觉好一些。请试着将你生命中的问题变成你的老师,持续将你遇到的困难用文字写下来,以抒发情感,然后检视你生活中描述的事情,并且治疗它们,你的生活将获得改善。
生命中总是充满了苦楚,但是这些痛楚并非来自别人,而是起源于你自己。你可以决定如何度过。生活上的种种阅历教导你,生命并非有关“为什么是我?”而是“试炼我!”你将学会,打败困难不仅仅是治愈它们,而是在逆境中生活的更积极有信心。

改变将会是最重要的钥匙。你的经验和参与将会改变你。试着在焦虑或恐惧时,花点时间大笑,爱人或玩乐。[做个你想做的人] 我们从演员的身上即可得知,要成功的扮演一个角色,完全依赖他们扮演时的情绪来改变他们。每一个人都是自己生命中的演员,但几乎所有的人都是哀怨动人的演员,这就是你要用一辈子的时间活得像自己的原因。所以,如果你没有成为自己想成为的那种人。你要先原谅你自己。试着拿出自己婴儿时期的照片,看着它并原谅自己,然后再继续朝你想要成为的人的方向努力。